What Does it Mean to be 70?

Emily Mikulewicz, Age 70

I haven’t figured out yet what it means to be seventy. It’s just a number so far, but so loaded that I feel I ought to have some deep thoughts about it. I don’t. I still feel like my usual self, and, although my hair has been grey for a long time, I am still surprised at times to see my reflection.

As for being the oldest in a room, it really never occurs to me. I find it just as easy to relate to every age as to any special one. In my own mind, I don’t stand out as an old person, just one of the gang. It is astonishing to be offered a seat on the subway. I often feel like offering MY seat.This sometimes leads me to wonder if I should be “acting my age” whatever that might mean. I find the concept of aging confusing. I am glad to be around to experience it. It is with great difficulty that I connect the number 70 with the friends of my youth who, as Shakespeare said, are forever young.

I am a retired nurse, and for the last five years have been working as a model for art schools, a whole different world, and I love it.

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Flourishing in the Eighth Decade!

Women everywhere, welcome to our blogspot, a space for sharing experiences, thoughts, and ideas about how to overcome obstacles and thrive as we approach and endure in the eighth decade of life. We hope this exchange will be a source of inspiration for the next generation of seventy year olds. Those baby boomers are hot on our heels, and want to know more about what lies ahead. Nobody gave us a guidebook or shared what this path might be like. As we burn those seventy candles, we can help shed some light on the trail for them.

What has this transition been like for you? Serious, funny, commonplace, unusual, short, long stories, all are welcome. How does it feel to be among the oldest in the crowd? What does it take to thrive in this decade? How do you think others see you? What contributes to well-being and yes, flourishing at three score and ten?

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