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Ellen’s Keys to Positive Aging
What have I learned about living well in old age? We all know about the importance of diet and exercise and good sleep habits, but this is my list: (1) Name ageism when you see or hear it. Be aware of your own inner … Continue reading
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Happy New Year- Welcome to 2020!
A new year and a new decade ahead! We, Jane and Ellen send all our best wishes to you, our 70Candles community. We value your thoughts and all your wonderful contributions to this 70Candles.com blog. Along with you, we benefit … Continue reading
Ellen on Positive Aging Part 4: Cultivate optimism
Cultivate Optimism (Hope) “New evidence that optimists live longer”—The Harvard Gazette—August 30, 2019 After decades of research, a new study links optimism and prolonged life. Researchers from Harvard, Boston University School of Medicine, and the National Center for PTSD at VA Boston Healthcare System, have found that individuals … Continue reading
Ellen on Positive Aging Part 2: About ageism
I have recently been trying to develop something akin to guidelines for positive aging. This is a work in progress. There are, so far, three items on this list, with new and exciting research to demonstrate their importance. LET’S END AGEISM and negative stereotypes In spite … Continue reading
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Inspiration
I’ve been gathering a collection essays, poems, quotes from books, and other writing that I come upon. I find these inspirational, they strike a chord and feel relevant to my aging self. I’ve decided to share them here and invite … Continue reading
Hair-The Reality not the Musical
Barbara Greenleaf I always liked my hair: It was thick and wavy and adapted easily to every style that was in. But, basically, like teeth until they ache or heels until they blister, hair—until it falls out—is something one simply takes for granted.Recently mine has been falling out or, … Continue reading
Living as I age
Mari, Almost 72 Someone once said I ought to call Mel Brooks; he could make a great story of my life. Growing up in the Midwest as the first daughter to live after my mother lost her first born @ … Continue reading
Ageism article from The New York Times
THE NEW OLD AGE Ageism: A ‘Prevalent and Insidious’ Health Threat The World Health Organization has begun four studies intended to define ageism and identify ways to combat it. By Paula Span April 26, 2019 Credit Lizzie Gill Here’s the link … Continue reading
Not just me then!
Susie, Age 70 What a lovely relief to discover your page when I was idly Googling ‘feeling sad at turning 70’, which I was last week on February 18th. I had decided that this year, after excruciatingly disappointing previous landmark … Continue reading